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The Care & Feeding of Healthy Kids
Everyone knows an infant needs regular feedings in order to
grow and develop. The trouble begins when people start giving
month-old babies tastes of ice cream, pieces of candy, cookies,
or even meat, sometimes before they've even grown teeth. Baby
foods also contain sugar, an absolutely unnecessary ingredient,
but cheap filler for the manufacturer.
The early introduction to overly sweet and nutrient devoid
foodstuffs sets you and your baby up for a lifetime struggle of
refusing healthful foods in favor of treats. First the struggle
is to get them to eat, "Come on honey, just one more bite for
mommy," then later you struggle to get them to stop, "No, honey,
you can't have another cookie."
Children that are not given sugar during infancy have a
greater resistance to disease and are less likely to become
sugar addicts in later life. For your sake and theirs, wait to
introduce your babies to processed foods, and especially "fast
foods" for as long as possible.
Overweight Kids - Don't be Too Quick to
Restrict their Eating
Kids learn to overeat at an early age. Cookies and candy are
offered instead of hugs when the child falls, or gets his
feelings hurt. Food, especially gooey, sweet treats are offered
as a reward for good behavior, instead of a small toy, trip to
the zoo or park or special favors.
Once a fondness for sweets sets in, it's difficult to change.
Many kids are much less active than in previous generations. TV
watching, the Internet, Nintendo and PlayStation have all
contributed to the "coach potato" lifestyle. The lack of
exercise and excess food consumption equals overweight and even
obesity.
So what do most parents do when they realize their kids are
getting too fat? They put them on the same dangerous fad diets
they've tried themselves. Popular diets ("fad diets") are proven
ineffective -- they simply don't work. Restrictive dieting for
children can be outright dangerous and should be avoided in
nearly all circumstances.
Children Need Good Nutrition
Children need good nutrition, meaning a clean diet. The
occasional treat is fine but a diet that is primarily based on
fast foods, chips, sodas, and hot-dogs is not going to provide
adequate nutrition for their growing bodies and minds.
Additionally giving a youngster a lot of junk foods during
infancy and the toddler years, then suddenly attempting to
restrict a child's foods and choice, is laying the groundwork
for eating disorders.
The worst thing that a parent can do is give unrestricted
junk foods during infancy and the toddler years, then suddenly
restrict a child's foods and choice, or refuse a child enough to
eat in the name of "dieting." That is a sure fire way to set up
a youngster for an eating disorder, or at best a mistrust of
their receiving the basic necessities of life such as love and
nurturing.
Restrictive Diets Dangerous for Very Young
Placing a very young child on a diet is dangerous. It places
the child's most basic biological needs at risk, i.e. not
feeding a hungry child is an emotional trauma. A recent report
by the CDC (Center for Disease Control) indicated that very
young children (0 - 7 years of age) should not be placed on
"diets" but rather should be on a program to maintain their
weight, thereby decreasing their overall fat percentage as they
grow.
If your child is obese, meaning more than 30% over their
ideal weight (and ideal weight is difficult to measure in a
child as they are of such varied sizes and shapes), then rather
than providing less to eat, instead encourage more movement.
Exercise will make the difference. Get the kids up off the couch
and moving.
Get Out and Play
Play outdoor sports with them, organize play groups, build or
visit a playground. Encourage your kids to race, jump, ride
bikes. You get the idea? When I was young we would ride our
bikes up and down the street for hours, nearly every day. We
climbed trees and played on the swings. Obviously all children
don't have nice backyards in which to play, but most
neighborhoods have some type of facility. Check your yellow
pages or even call your local Chamber of Commerce.
Get yourself and your kids out to play.
Kathryn Martyn, M.NLP
http://www.OneMoreBite-Weightloss.com
Ending Emotional Eating, One Bite at a Time
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